One of the great joys of having children is that you have the opportunity to discover a whole series of books that as adults, we would not otherwise give a second chance. If it were not for our kids and spending time reading to them we might not be able to quote from memory Good Night Moon or Brown Bear, Brown Bear What Do you See?.
There is one book that has become a favorite of mine. And it actually fits very well with the text for today from Deuteronomy. The book is entitled I Love you Stinky Face. Have you ever heard of it or read it before?
In this book a mother is putting her child down for the evening and says, “I love you my wonderful child.” And the little one asks, “Mamma, but Mama, what if I were a super smelly skunk, and I smelled so bad that my name was Stinky Face? Would you still love me? And the Mama says, “I would give you a bath and sprinkle you with sweet-smelling powder. And if you still smelled bad, I wouldn’t mind, and I would hug you tight and whisper in your ear, ‘I love you, Stinky Face.” The picture shows the mother hugging a skunk in the child’s pajamas.
And the child asks the same question with other hard to love situations, a harry ape, an alligator, a dinosaur, and a swamp monster. And in each case the mother says “I love you.” She loves her child no matter what. It didn’t matter what the child did, or even how she smelled, the mother’s love was the same.
It is a very touching story. It is a good analogy to describe the love that God has for us. No matter who we are, or where we come from, or what we have done, God’s love for you, God’s love for us is real, present and powerful.
Human love does not always work that way. There are too many relationships out there that are broken and strained. Things go well as long as they are going my way and the way that I expect them to go. But then something happens and it is too much and the love and the relationship are never the same. This is what we understand and know. This makes sense. You might even go so far as to say that this is common sense. After all, fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice… well you get the idea.
But God’s love doesn’t work that way. He is not a you-scratch-my-back-and-I-will-scratch-your-back kind of a god. I will be nice as long as you keep me happy and don’t hurt my feelings. But if you do, look out. I am going to take my toys and go home. That is not who God is. That is not how he works. That is not how he loves.
I was telling David the other day that there are three kinds of people in this world. There are those who can count. And there are those who can’t count. Well, in a similar kind of a way, I think when it comes to hearing about God’s love we can tend to find ourselves in one of two camps.
The first one is the one where we believe that we have already exhausted the limits of God’s grace. Or maybe a better way to say it is to say that we have exhausted his patience. This is the one where we say, “You know, I really like what you are saying. But there is no way God could forgive me. If you knew what was in my past; if you knew what I had done, then you would not say what you are saying about me.”
When we find ourselves in this kind of a place we are finding ourselves in a place where we are bound and trapped by our past. And while some of the decisions that we have made may leave us with consequences that we have to live with, the reality of the situation is that in spite of all that God’s love for us, God’s love for you is there. It is real: no matter what. Just as we heard in the epistle lesson, nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
The other camp that you could possibly find yourself is one that can be dangerous. This is the camp where you think that you are “good enough” to have God’s love. You believe that you are worthy of God’s love. And you say, “Well of course I’m worthy of God’s love. I mean I do all the right things. I go to worship. I stay awake through most of the sermon. I give money. I volunteer. I don’t do anything too bad. I believe the right way. I live the right way. God’s got it easy with me.”
The danger of being in this camp is that it can allow us to believe that we have somehow earned or have a right to God’s love and favor. When we find ourselves in this kind of a place we can begin to think that we are righteous because of who we are and what we do. We can even begin to think of ourselves as being better than other people and can look down our noses at them.
Both of these camps are places to flee from. Because both of these camps carry with them a false understanding of who God is and how God relates to us. Now it is true that the way we live our lives is important. There are some things that are pleasing to God and there are others that are not. But we seek to live a God pleasing life not so that we can appease an angry deity, but so that we can know the freedom of life lived in relationship with God.
This life is available to us, it is ours because of and for the sake of Jesus and what he did for us in living the perfect life, giving his life on the cross, rising three days later, and ascending into heaven. Remember that this is ultimately about God, and what God has done for us. And when he does something, he always does it right. Right? Right!
So then, hear these words from Deuteronomy, because they are for us today too. “You are a people holy to the Lord your God. The Lord your God has chosen you to be a people for his treasured possession.” These words were spoken to the people of Israel just as they were getting ready to enter the Promised Land. They had been through a lot in the last forty years. They were delivered out of slavery. They wandered in the wilderness. They had some good times and some really tough times. But now they are ready to enter the Promised Land.
They are there as a holy people. This is not a self-righteous people. This is not a people who are good enough to be worthy of the status that has been given to them. But instead this is a people that God has set apart (which is what “holy” means) so that in the way they live their lives they would show who God is and what it is to live life in relationship with him.
Again this is not because of who they are, but because of who God is. “It was not because you were more in number than any other people...but it is because the Lord loves you.” God loves you. Not because of what do you. It is not because of what you know or who you are. You have not done anything to deserve it. But God loves you. This means that you have it because of who he is. And nothing can separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. God loves you very much. You are kind of a big deal.
Having this great love then changes everything. It changes how we see ourselves and how we understand who we are. It doesn’t matter what I can do, or not do. It doesn’t matter what I look like or how successful I am. Those things are not the reasons why God loves me. He loves me; he loves you because he values you. You have great value and great worth because God says you do.
In fact this value and worth is so great that it would move Jesus to give up everything and willingly lay down his life that you might have forgiveness, life and salvation. You might say that it’s kind of like you were a pearl of great value. And he went and gave everything he had in order to purchase and redeem you. Well, that means you are pretty special.
So God’s love for you has an impact in how you see yourself. It also has an impact in how we see and treat one another. If we each are people that God loves this way, well then that certainly has implications for our life together. It impacts how we live together, how we work together, how we serve one another, how we worship, how we deal with conflict: all because of God’s love.
Not only that, but it also impacts how we see other people in this world. Because God so loved the world. And as we consider all this, what we begin to realize and discover is that because of God’s love for us, because of Jesus we are able to be a part of something that is bigger than we are. We get to tell and show people that God loves them. There is nothing more powerful, there is nothing more life-giving than being able to participate in this.
God loves you. God loves us. And his love for us so fills our lives that it changes everything and moves us to share that love with others. And in doing this we discover life as it was meant to be lived, we discover life full and abundant. We discover life lived in relationship with our Jesus.
I pray that this would be a blessed source of joy for you now and always. Amen.