I have long wanted to write a book. But have not had the opportunity, but can at least take the time to get those thoughts down now, so that someday, I can get them into a book format. For those of you who do not know David is one of my sons, and from him, I have seen some amazing gospel moments. Here is one of them.
One Thanksgiving, David was lying on the floor watching TV. He was minding his own business after a long day of turkey and torture. Not that he was being tortured, but that he was torturing his sister. And so exhausted, he lay there watching TV and minding his own business.
When out of the blue, WHACK. A sippy-cup, from nowhere materialized and connected directly with his forehead. His sister, not willing to take the torture was smart enough to wait until he was not expecting anything until she exacted her sweet revenge.
I was torn, between feeling pride in the fact that my daughter knew how to stand up for herself, keep in mind she is only about one and a half, and knowing that I want to teach my children that we do not resolve our issues with violence. So I knew that I had to act.
Well, if you want to teach a child that hitting it is wrong, it really does not make much sense to spank them, so I decided to put Emily in time out. But at that age, she did not fully understand what time out was. So I had to stand there with her, and every time she would try to get off of that couch, I would have to put her back on the couch.
David made his way into that living room. He was rubbing his forehead. I was getting ready to tell him that watching his sister be punished is not a good form of entertainment. When, without saying a word, he climbs up onto the couch. He sits down right next to his sister, and he places his arm around her. He gives her a squeeze and tells her, "It's OK, Emily. I want to be in time out too."
It was all I could do to keep the tears back. Here was a child who was wronged, and went to his sister in the midst of her suffering and sat there with her. Willing to go through that punishment with the one who wronged him.
I saw in this a glimmer of what our God has done for us in Jesus. Only he did not just go through the punishment with us, but he took that punishment on our behalf. What was deserved by our sins, he took and suffered so that we would not have to, and having paid the price, we have been given the gifts of forgiveness, life and salvation. It is truly an awesome thing.
And if that were all that our God has done for us, then it would be enough reason to honor and praise him, but he does even more. Just as David was with his sister in timeout, our God promises to be with us always, no matter what we are facing, no matter what is going on in our lives. And, not only has he promised to be with us always, but he has also promised that nothing will be able to separate us from his love for us in Jesus.
May this great truth be a source of strength for you, and may it help you to celebrate the incarnation, the birth of our Savior, now and always.
Sincerely,
Pastor CJ